Rethinking love.  Lean in.
3y ago

Rethinking love. Lean in.

Find in your heart love and compassion for all humanity.

Amusement
3y ago

Maliya schools her dad

Dad gets his singing lesson…

PADDED CELL, Patient #777 - Vacate Immediately!
3y ago

PADDED CELL, Patient #777 - Vacate Immediately!

Most of you are familiar with padded cells. You've probably seen them in a movie scene at some point. The "insane" person who's usually not really…

Meet Your New Neighbor, MR. FEAR RAEF!
3y ago

Meet Your New Neighbor, MR. FEAR RAEF!

On Sunday morning you’re awakened by the sound of a large truck. Groggily, you look out your window and see a huge moving van. The house next door…

Lost in a Fog!
3y ago

Lost in a Fog!

When I was in high school, just a sweet girl of 17, my dad let me drive the car to school. Looking back now, I seriously don’t know how we made it…

Nobody Respects a Nitpicking Smarty Pants
3y ago

Nobody Respects a Nitpicking Smarty Pants

I was at a dinner party last week for Librarians on the Go, a group of about a dozen of us that get together every few months to talk about our…

When I run after what I think I want
3y ago

When I run after what I think I want

"When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety; if I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me…

News Flash
3y ago

One...

One word can sway a mind. Choose your Word. One song can soften a heart. Choose your Lyrics. One reach can touch a Soul…

Consistent Small Acts = Success!
3y ago

Consistent Small Acts = Success!

Most of us want to accomplish something; do something that will make us feel successful in life. But sometimes the steps to get there seem…

"One day, when I__________, I'll__________."
3y ago

"One day, when I__________, I'll__________."

When you what? When you finish school? When you get a better paying job? When you've paid off that loan? When you have a bigger house? When your…

The Rooster Teaches Me Humility!
3y ago

The Rooster Teaches Me Humility!

I have a little wooden rooster that sits on a step stool in the kitchen. I’ve had it for years. Unfortunately, dogs, kids, people, mops, etc.,…

Lost together
3y ago

Lost together

A young woman with an old soul ponders complexities of life with remarkable openness and curiosity.

She's an agent of love with insights…

What a smile can bring
3y ago

What a smile can bring

I had to renew my driver’s license this year, and I was pleasantly surprised by how my new photo looked. Instead of eyes halfway opened and an…

Imitation...the greatest form of flattery?
3y ago

Imitation...the greatest form of flattery?

“ . . . nobody wants a phony. Nobody ever wants a counterfeit coin.” ~Paul Boynton

It’s often said that imitation is the greatest…

Anti-dopamine parenting
3y ago

Anti-dopamine parenting

There's no denying technological advances over the last thirty years have brought many benefits to society. However, when it comes to the use of…

Be Like a Detective!
3y ago

Be Like a Detective!

Recently, I switched purses to a cross-body because I was going to be doing a lot of walking and didn't want to keep adjusting the ******** my…

How To Be a Master of Delightful Repartee
3y ago

How To Be a Master of Delightful Repartee

“To my taste, the most fruitful and natural exercise of our minds is conversation. I find the practice to be one of the most delightful…

"It is what it is!
3y ago

"It is what it is!

But does it have to be?

I’ve heard this phrase often. Someone tells me about a situation they’re in, and then follow it with, “It is what…

Signs of Aging...
3y ago

Signs of Aging...

I don’t know of any human, animal, or thing that does not show signs of aging with the passage of time. It’s an indication of life. Of life…

Long Beach 2023 Career Fair
3y ago

Long Beach 2023 Career Fair

Tue, 06/13/2023 - 10:00am

Location

4321 Atlantic Avenue
Long Beach, CA 90807
United States
33° 49' 42.1176" N, 118° 10' 56.46" W
California US
Invest in Yourself: Give!
3y ago

Invest in Yourself: Give!

Do you want to feel happy, full of joy, satisfied? It’s quite simple—GIVE!

There’s nothing more uplifting than Giving, providing support…

Just An Illusion...
3y ago

Just An Illusion...

Illusions! They seem so real, don't they? That's why you believe them. That's why magicians can captivate and hold an audience's attention. They…

If Worrying Were a Currency, You'd All Be Rich!
3y ago

If Worrying Were a Currency, You'd All Be Rich!

You all do it! Worry, that is. You all entertain those thoughts, images, or emotions, usually negative in nature, about some potential catastrophe…

If Only We Could All Be Like Starlings!
3y ago

If Only We Could All Be Like Starlings!

Scrolling through YouTube, I happened to see a video of the starling murmuration. I was enthralled, amazed, in awe, that anything like that was…

"I'll Start on Monday..."
3y ago

"I'll Start on Monday..."

“I’m going to write my paper, on Monday.” “I’m going to start my diet, on Monday.” “I’m going to quit smoking, on Monday.” “I…

Are You Getting High on the Sound of Your Voice?
3y ago

Are You Getting High on the Sound of Your Voice?

“There can be no doubt of all the accomplishments prized in modern society that of being agreeable in conversation is the very first.” J.P…

"I Want My Money Back! This Coffee is Too Sweet!"
3y ago

"I Want My Money Back! This Coffee is Too Sweet!"

A while back, I was talking to a friend of mine who’d been working a food truck at a golf tournament. They were the only truck around where anyone…

"I Love You!"
3y ago

"I Love You!"

The three most important words to say! The three hardest words to say! The three words most taken for granted! The three…

"I have a feeling I should..."
3y ago

"I have a feeling I should..."

Has that ever happened to you? Where a feeling rushes over you like some kind of warning? It does to everyone. You're about to say or do something…

Long Beach Career Fair
3y ago

Long Beach Career Fair

Wed, 08/02/2023 - 9:30am to 1:00pm

Location

701 West Ocean Boulevard
Long Beach, CA 90831
United States
33° 46' 4.1412" N, 118° 11' 57.8436" W
California US
Free fresh fruit and vegetables
3y ago

Free fresh fruit and vegetables

Fri, 06/09/2023 - 6:00am to 8:00am

Location

1919 East Compton Boulevard
Compton, CA 90221
United States
33° 53' 35.754" N, 118° 12' 14.4" W
California US
Hurry, Hurry Catch That Thief! (II)
3y ago

Hurry, Hurry Catch That Thief! (II)

The Stolen Lap Top, Part II

We made our way to the gate, all the while my eyes scanning the airport. A part of me was still hopeful I’d…

Hurry, Hurry, Catch That Thief!
3y ago

Hurry, Hurry, Catch That Thief!

The Stolen Laptop, Part I

Several years back, I went to South Carolina with my son and grandson to visit family. Because I wanted to be…

A message worth paying attention to.
3y ago

A message worth paying attention to.

Taking this message to heart will make for a good day.

News Flash
3y ago

A paralyzed man can walk

I'd be happy to have my tax dollars fund this type of groundbreaking and life changing technology.…

Having More Money Won't Make You Rich!
3y ago

Having More Money Won't Make You Rich!

So often I’ve heard people say, “If I had money, all my problems would be solved.” Or, “If I won the Lotto, I’d be able to help so many people…

You Are the Gardener of Your Life!
3y ago

You Are the Gardener of Your Life!

"All the FLOWERS of all The TOMORROWS are In the Seeds of TODAY." ~Indian Proverb

You are the Gardener of your life. You…

Wisdom
3y ago

Wisdom

I agree with this recipe. Would you add anything to it?

Searching for that Four-Leaf Clover?
3y ago

Searching for that Four-Leaf Clover?

Finding a four-leaf clover has been considered a source of good luck. Unfortunately, the chances of that are estimated at 1 in 10,000. This cute…

Talking Refrigerator Needs a Gag Order!
3y ago

Talking Refrigerator Needs a Gag Order!

One of the things I love about being a librarian is you can tell people to be quiet when they are talking and they have to listen (or comply). I…

4th of July Block Party - Downtown LA
3y ago

4th of July Block Party - Downtown LA

Tue, 07/04/2023 - 4:00pm to 9:00pm

Location

200 North Grand Avenue
Los Angeles, CA 90012
United States
34° 3' 41.7996" N, 118° 14' 21.984" W
California US
Off the 405
3y ago

Off the 405

Sat, 05/20/2023 - 6:00pm to Sat, 08/26/2023 - 10:00pm

Location

1200 Getty Center Drive
Los Angeles, CA 90049
United States
34° 4' 2.6724" N, 118° 28' 31.008" W
California US
For Better of For Worse...
3y ago

For Better of For Worse...

Or more realistically, “Until you do something I don’t like.”

A while back, I attended the beautiful wedding of a young couple in their…

Do you know CPR?
3y ago

Do you know CPR?

This video teaches the "compression-only" version of CPR. I highly recommend taking a class, but this video will show you the basics that can…

Flight #727 Ready for Takeoff!
3y ago

Flight #727 Ready for Takeoff!

You are the Pilot of Flight #727. Everyone and everything that needs to be on that flight, is. Everything is loaded and ready to go. The control…

Love in the sky
3y ago

Love in the sky

I wish I'd seen this in person. It must have been quite majestic.

Fear of Rejection or Rejecting Opportunity?
3y ago

Fear of Rejection or Rejecting Opportunity?

Recently I had a conversation with a young woman who told me she had an interest in someone but was afraid to ask him to hang out. When I asked…

Is this plastic recyclable?
3y ago

Is this plastic recyclable?

How great it would be if each and every plastic item could be recycled and remade into something useful. Maybe one day, but we're not there yet…

From Buzz Lightyear, with love!
3y ago

From Buzz Lightyear, with love!

I’ve been going to my chiropractor for a number of years and a recent visit to his office came with an admirable story about a father’s love. At…

How dogs think...
3y ago

How dogs think...

... vs how cats think.

DOUBT...The Silent Killer!
3y ago

DOUBT...The Silent Killer!

Client had a recent situation come up with her BF and it upset her enough that we needed to address it today. Her BF went to dinner with a friend…

Don't Be an Unreasonable Political Animal
3y ago

Don't Be an Unreasonable Political Animal

A friend moved back to town who I hadn’t seen since she graduated college. She was married now and I was eager to meet Troy, her new husband. I…

Be You Unapologetically!
3y ago

Be You Unapologetically!

Dot-Marie Jones is a woman. At first glance, however, if you're not paying close enough attention, you might think she's a man.

I first…

Dope on a Rope!
3y ago

Dope on a Rope!

A criminal committed a crime. (Because hey, that’s what criminals do.) Anyway, he was sent to the king for his punishment. The king told him he…

The Inner Citadel or Little Realm of Your Own
3y ago

The Inner Citadel or Little Realm of Your Own

To a librarian the term “inner citadel” could mean a few different things. It could be what I like to call the inner sanctum of the library—a…

Work Hard, But Don't Kill Yourself in the Process!
3y ago

Work Hard, But Don't Kill Yourself in the Process!

“Mary Jane” has been an excellent employee most of her life. She has worked hard, has gone above and beyond the call of duty, traveled three weeks…

The Mindless Menace of Violence
3y ago

The Mindless Menace of Violence

Did you hear about Monday’s mass shooting in Farmington, New Mexico? It’s a small town of just over 45,000 people. Three people were killed, 6…

The big payoff
3y ago

Pledge: The big payoff

The other night while finishing my Chinese food, I was wondering what was in my future via my fortune cookie. Will I be going on a cruise, or…

Don't dismiss the nudge!
3y ago

Don't dismiss the nudge!

Perhaps you’re doing chores at home, driving to an appointment, or cooking a meal, and then it happens—someone you know comes to your mind and you…

Italian Food Didn't Get the Best of Me
3y ago

Italian Food Didn't Get the Best of Me

”The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.” – Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and Philosopher  Last…

Saying YES When You want to Say NO!
3y ago

Saying YES When You want to Say NO!

DO YOU SAY YES WHEN YOU REALLY WANT TO SAY NO? If you're nodding your head, then you're not alone. It's not uncommon for many of you to say Yes to…

Decisions, Decisions, Decisions!
3y ago

Decisions, Decisions, Decisions!

They’re inevitable! Often during your Life’s Journey, you will come to that proverbial Fork in the Road. And it won’t be just once; it will show…

Amusement
3y ago
A Stoic's View On Removing Thorns From Your Side
3y ago

A Stoic's View On Removing Thorns From Your Side

Of the 72 Roman emperors, Marcus Aurelius, who reigned between 161-180 CE, still reigns supreme in my mind. It's not just because he had curly…

News Flash
3y ago

In conversation with Kym Allen

For this installment of “In conversation with…”, I sat down with my tribe member, Kym Allen, a master fitness trainer and instructor, and my…

Not An Unlikely Conversation Between Two Women!
3y ago

Not An Unlikely Conversation Between Two Women!

Jane: I’m really upset!

Judy: Why?

Jane: Can’t you tell?

Judy: No. Is it the new Admin, Kandy Kane?

Jane: No…

Tribal Wave Poll
3y ago

Blindfolded Poll Request

Question: (blindfolded)

Stoic Emperor Meditates on a Royal Feathered Cap
3y ago

Stoic Emperor Meditates on a Royal Feathered Cap

While organizing my book shelf of Roman emperors over the weekend, I took a look at King Charles’ coronation and couldn’t get over Princess Anne’s…

Constipated Much?
3y ago

Constipated Much?

No, I’m not getting personal! But, let’s do talk about constipation—Emotional Constipation—that is!

But first let’s take a look at…

Valuing yourself
3y ago

Wish: Valuing yourself

Somewhere someone is looking for exactly what you have to offer. – Louise Hay

How cool is that! You, yes you, have exactly what someone is…

CONGRATULATIONS! You're a Millionaire!
3y ago

CONGRATULATIONS! You're a Millionaire!

This morning when you woke up you did not know this. I am happy to be the bearer of such great news!

You’re probably scratching your head…

Change!
3y ago

Change!

A lot of people don't like change. They consider it scary. After all, when change comes, it often disrupts the safe little life that has been…

Challenges...
3y ago

Challenges...

Who doesn't experience challenges? We all do. They are life’s speed bumps. They show up when you least expect them. And they definitely slow us…

BREAKING BAD...Habits!
3y ago

BREAKING BAD...Habits!

A while back our kitchen clock fell off the wall, the glass breaking into several pieces. It had to be thrown out. Only after the clock was no…

Wishing Well
3y ago

Wish: Healing light and prayers needed!

Our co-founder, Mark, who makes youtropolis work smoothly and efficiently has come down with Covid. Please send him some love to help him heal…

"...anyway, shove it up your bum, Missis!"
3y ago

"...anyway, shove it up your bum, Missis!"

(Tweet sent to me on Twitter @askjoshsmom).

When I received this tweet, I was stunned! Why would anyone write this? I had to read it a…

Just Around the Corner...
3y ago

Just Around the Corner...

Things happen in life. Things we don’t like. Things that make us feel bad, and create turbulence. Sometimes those things seem like Everything—like…

Grandma moved in and unpacked blessings
3y ago

Grandma moved in and unpacked blessings

Dementia isn’t a condition associated with positivity, as cognitive degeneration can rob a person of the life they knew and upend those of their…

What Kind of Gift is This?
3y ago

What Kind of Gift is This?

Sometimes gifts keep giving.

The first time I realized that gifts can exceed their worth or utility was during my run for Congress…

Paso Robles Wine Festival
3y ago

Paso Robles Wine Festival

Thu, 05/18/2023 - 10:00am to Sun, 05/21/2023 - 10:00pm

Location

Paso Robles, CA 93446
United States
35° 38' 26.1204" N, 120° 42' 15.048" W
California US
AND THE WINNER IS: 40-25-11-22-03 Mega 15!
3y ago

AND THE WINNER IS: 40-25-11-22-03 Mega 15!

You stop at your neighborhood 7-Eleven, and purchase one Lotto ticket. It’s not going to win, you’re sure, but you’ll check tomorrow night anyway…

California Watermelon Festival
3y ago

California Watermelon Festival

Sat, 06/17/2023 - 10:00am to Sun, 06/18/2023 - 10:00pm

Location

11658 Foothill Boulevard
Los Angeles, CA 91342
United States
34° 18' 28.3572" N, 118° 25' 44.544" W
California US
Accident Up Ahead...Merge Right!
3y ago

Accident Up Ahead...Merge Right!

You’re driving down the freeway going about 80 miles an hour; a tad too fast, but hey, you’re going with the flow of traffic, right? You’re going…

You CAN Do More Than You Think You CAN!
3y ago

You CAN Do More Than You Think You CAN!

Several years back, my youngest brother told me that he loved a painting called The Nightmare by Henry Fuseli (1781). He asked me to paint it for…

Love vs. Crocodile
3y ago

Love vs. Crocodile

A woman in India went into butt-kicking mode when a crocodile attacked her husband. The power of love knows no limits.…

You're a Hero to Someone!
3y ago

You're a Hero to Someone!

Ever feel like your life is empty, meaningless? Do you ever wonder, "What's the point?"

Let me tell you what the point is: You matter! You…

You Can't Unring a Bell!
3y ago

You Can't Unring a Bell!

Have you ever felt so heated during an argument with a loved one that you’ve said something really mean and hurtful? Then after you said it, you…

A Message from 1897 Brought Back to Life
3y ago

A Message from 1897 Brought Back to Life

A kind word, a gentle act, a loving smile, are as so many seeds that spring up to bear fruit.” – Gold Dust  In 1897, a small…

Being at Peace With Your Conscience
3y ago

Being at Peace With Your Conscience

The following passage from Gold Dust has always given me a sense of protection, knowing that my guardian angel is near at hand:

“Would you…

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