New Is Coming
Sun, 12/01/2024

New Is Coming

This is an excerpt from Maria Shriver's Sunday Paper. I found it relevant and relatable and somehow comforting. She poses some "beautiful…

Two Wolves
Wed, 11/27/2024

Two Wolves

It's been awhile since I read the story of Two Wolves. The origin of this parable is mixed. Some attribute the story to indigenous American…

Tools in the Toolbox
Fri, 11/08/2024

Tools in the Toolbox

I often heard my husband say “to be a really good carpenter you have to have lots of tools in your toolbox so you can be prepared for what ever is…

The Waiting Room
Tue, 09/17/2024

The Waiting Room

We've all been there at one time or another. Sitting in a waiting room for an appointment with someone. Some appointments are initiated by us…

Circle of Influence
Sun, 08/11/2024

Circle of Influence

I'm guessing I am not the only one right now who has at least one friend experiencing challenges from physical, mental, emotional, financial,…

It's More Than A New Screen
Sat, 07/06/2024

It's More Than A New Screen

Clearly replacing the screen of my patio door is not in my skill set! I'm just not “that girl.” So I've been on a search for a year to find…

Knowledge
Wed, 06/19/2024

Alphabet of the Heart: C - L

How does your day begin? Do you roll out of bed half awake, feet hitting the floor and off you go to begin your morning routine with the…

Walking the Labyrinth
Wed, 06/19/2024

Walking the Labyrinth

It was one of those spontaneous days when everything was aligned to allow me the opportunity to drive up the hill to Rancho Palos Verdes and spend…

Error Messages
Sun, 03/10/2024

Error Messages

The last couple days I'd been getting error messages when opening my four year old safe. Even though I didn't understand what was going on I didn…

A Coffin Doesn't Have Pockets
Sun, 02/25/2024

A Coffin Doesn't Have Pockets

At our monthly coffee date last week my friend was bursting with excitement sharing his decision to accept an invitation from his friends to join…

Good Bones
Sun, 02/25/2024

Good Bones

I was recently introduced to this stunning poem by award winning poet Maggie Smith. By the end of it I noticed I was literally holding my…

The Key
Mon, 02/19/2024

The Key

Immersed in podcasts I've been saving for a rainy day such as this I'm hearing a lot about people who did all the right things and life wasn't…

Digestible Lessons
Sat, 02/03/2024

Digestible Lessons

A few days ago while eating breakfast my mind was all over the place. I was thinking about how digestion works. Cutting food into bite size…

The Messy Middle
Sun, 01/28/2024

The Messy Middle

Can you think of a time in your life where you found yourself in the gap between something ending and something beginning? There is actually a…

Equanimity
Mon, 10/02/2023

Equanimity

I've learned so much about equanimity these last few months as my world has been inundated with unexpected house repairs and health issues. (I…

Are You Running Towards Something Or Running Away?
Sat, 07/29/2023

Are You Running Towards Something Or Running Away?

It is human nature to be running away from something we don't want to feel or deal with...we all do it. This behavior has been around since the…

What's In Your Wallet
Sat, 07/08/2023

What's In Your Wallet

We've all heard that credit card commercial thousands of times. You know the one delivered by various movie stars who look you right in the eye…

Take What I Need Not What I Want
Sat, 06/24/2023

Take What I Need Not What I Want

On my visit to Maui in March I struck up a conversation with a 23 year old sales lady where I was shopping. As is my practice when visiting the…

Who Is Your Lamppost?
Wed, 06/21/2023

Who Is Your Lamppost?

Driving down the street it was dark, it was late and I was tired. Getting home was the only thing on my mind.

When I turned on to my…

Life Lessons From a 2 x 4 x 8 Piece of Wood
Mon, 02/20/2023

Life Lessons From a 2 x 4 x 8 Piece of Wood

I had no idea what I was getting myself into when Jiri, my strength coach, asked me to walk barefoot on a 2 x 4 x 8 piece of wood to improve my…

Shifting Views
Sun, 02/12/2023

Shifting Views

Life lessons reveal themselves in such surprising ways. Recently I had horizontal blinds installed in my dining room to replace the existing…

Asking for Help
Sat, 02/04/2023

Asking for Help

Yesterday I heard an alarming statistic.....61% of people in America believe they have no one to call if they need help. That is sad and…

Care Instructions
Sat, 02/04/2023

Care Instructions

Walking around the garden center at Home Depot I noticed all those little pieces of paper with care instructions in most of the flower pots. Sun…

Re-defining Self-Care:  Part 3
Tue, 01/31/2023

Re-defining Self-Care: Part 3

Part 3 describes two of my favorite quick and effective ways to repair and regulate the autonomic nervous system. I like to keep interventions…

Re-defining Self-Care:  Part 2
Tue, 01/31/2023

Re-defining Self-Care: Part 2

Part 2 of this series will give a brief explanation of the autonomic nervous system's two branches. The sympathetic nervous system known as…

Re-defining Self-Care: Part 1
Tue, 01/31/2023

Re-defining Self-Care: Part 1

My guess is your life may be similar to mine these last 3 years. I was dealing with some health issues, then my husband died, the pandemic…

Resistance to Change
Sun, 01/29/2023

Resistance to Change

This year I wanted to start writing again even though it's been a long time. I got very excited about the topics of interest and the end result…

A Beautiful Question
Sun, 01/29/2023

A Beautiful Question

I was introduced to the concept of a "beautiful question" when I heard internationally known poet and author David Whyte speak at a conference…