If Anger Seizes You, Take Seneca’s Advice
Tue, 06/18/2024

If Anger Seizes You, Take Seneca’s Advice

“There is no proof of greatness so sure as when nothing can occur to provoke you.” Seneca

I’ve been mad a few times in my life…like a…

Isometrics And Hope Molecules
Thu, 04/25/2024

Isometrics And Hope Molecules

Yesterday, I went to the market to pick up a few items and got into the express line right behind a rather imposing woman. While we waited in line…

How to Silence a One-upper
Wed, 08/23/2023

How to Silence a One-upper

A few days ago, I took a break from cataloguing books and went outside to a small garden next to the library for a breath of fresh air. 

The Art of Being a Stone
Mon, 08/07/2023

The Art of Being a Stone

This past Sunday I got a call from a friend clearly in distress. 

“I have to talk to you,” she said with a tone of angst in her voice…

The Eloquence of Tact
Sat, 07/08/2023

The Eloquence of Tact

When I came across the image above, it reminded me of the smiles and delights a happy and tactful conversation can bring about. Not like the other…

Heartfelt Harmony and Jane Fondue
Sun, 06/25/2023

Heartfelt Harmony and Jane Fondue

The light from the bright full moon fell in a river along the top of a placid lake as two lovers held hands. The scent of night blooming jasmine…

Nobody Respects a Nitpicking Smarty Pants
Mon, 06/19/2023

Nobody Respects a Nitpicking Smarty Pants

I was at a dinner party last week for Librarians on the Go, a group of about a dozen of us that get together every few months to talk about our…

How To Be a Master of Delightful Repartee
Sat, 06/10/2023

How To Be a Master of Delightful Repartee

“To my taste, the most fruitful and natural exercise of our minds is conversation. I find the practice to be one of the most delightful…

Are You Getting High on the Sound of Your Voice?
Thu, 06/01/2023

Are You Getting High on the Sound of Your Voice?

“There can be no doubt of all the accomplishments prized in modern society that of being agreeable in conversation is the very first.” J.P…

Talking Refrigerator Needs a Gag Order!
Tue, 05/23/2023

Talking Refrigerator Needs a Gag Order!

One of the things I love about being a librarian is you can tell people to be quiet when they are talking and they have to listen (or comply). I…

The Inner Citadel or Little Realm of Your Own
Wed, 05/17/2023

The Inner Citadel or Little Realm of Your Own

To a librarian the term “inner citadel” could mean a few different things. It could be what I like to call the inner sanctum of the library—a…

Italian Food Didn't Get the Best of Me
Sat, 05/13/2023

Italian Food Didn't Get the Best of Me

”The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.” – Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and Philosopher…

A Stoic's View On Removing Thorns From Your Side
Tue, 05/09/2023

A Stoic's View On Removing Thorns From Your Side

Of the 72 Roman emperors, Marcus Aurelius, who reigned between 161-180 CE, still reigns supreme in my mind. It's not just because he had curly…

Being at Peace With Your Conscience
Wed, 04/19/2023

Being at Peace With Your Conscience

The following passage from Gold Dust has always given me a sense of protection, knowing that my guardian angel is near at hand: 

“Would you…

When the World Turns Against You
Wed, 04/19/2023

When the World Turns Against You

From Gold Dust

“There are times in one’s life when the world seems to turn against us. Our motives are misunderstood, our words…

Little Worries
Wed, 04/19/2023

Little Worries

From Gold Dust

"There is not a day in our lives that we are not distressed by some numberless little worries that meet us each step of the…