Love comes to football.

Knowledge

American football is one of the more violent sports that America has to offer. It results in dozens of injuries every season, and in years past has come under scrutiny for the number of accumulative traumatic brain injuries that some players have suffered. It isn’t a game that is typically equated with the concept of love.

After a number of events took place that enraged communities, including the death of George Floyd, the National Football League, along with the country’s other sports organizations, took steps to recognize efforts in creating social reforms. One of these steps was to put slogans on the player’s football helmets that included “Stop Hate”, “It Takes All Of Us”, “End Racism”, and “Choose Love”. Given the fierce and violent nature of football, where players compare each game to being in a few car accidents, the Choose Love slogan fell a bit flat for me. However, my perspective recently changed in a big way.

On January 2, the cardiac arrest of Buffalo Bills player, Damar Hamlin, brought forth an outpouring of support and love that the sport had never before experienced. This was made evident by the vigils held outside the hospital, tens of thousands of social media posts, and especially by the nearly nine million dollars that people have donated to Mr. Hamlin’s charity for children. Being the phenomenal athlete that he is, Mr. Hamlin’s recovery has been amazing to watch, and many of the messages he’s posted have been about love and the importance of spreading it.

Because of this incident and its subsequent heartfelt acts of kindness from so many people, the NFL’s Choose Love slogan feels like it fits a little bit better, as this is a gleaming example of how good things can come from bad situations.

Ninniburough

I like everything you said and am heartened, but I'd also like to hear your perspective on why does our society show up for love in such a responsive and thoughtful way only when something visibly tragic or shocking happens? Where's all that love when it comes to changing our gun laws or putting an end to the growing, profitable, sex-trafficking slave trade?

Well Street

Talk about an important and complicated question.

Tens of millions witnessed Damar collapse on live TV, watched the ambulance come out, and were glued to any news about him. We collectively felt compassion for him and his situation; this may have served as a type of permission to open our hearts so fully.

The gun issue? There are many citizens who want to see real gun control become law, but powerful forces are always working, bribing, and manipulating to prevent that from happening.

The sex trade? Unless you know someone directly affected by it, it's likely "too far from home" for the masses to rise up against it. If a celebrity's child was kidnapped and sold off, I imagine a lot would be done about that, however.

Ninniburough

Thoughtful response. "Powerful forces" always seem to be in the way of what the majority wants. Maybe one day we can find a way to generate enough momentum to override those minor but forceful powers.

Youngdannville

Out of sight- out of mind