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Be someone's angel
An angel visited me this past weekend. Well, not literally an angel, actually, my neighbor, Robert. He’d apparently been watching my son and me struggle to dig out a large Oleander bush that had died. My son was hard at work digging around the root ball, trying to loosen it when Robert appeared out of nowhere, smiling, holding a small shovel, and asking if we needed help.
I don’t really know Robert. He lives across the street, and we’ve only exchanged small talk while working in our yards. But his offer felt sincere, so I said if he was willing, we’d gladly take him up on it.
Once I gave him the go-ahead, he turned into a machine. Without saying much, he trenched down, chopping through thick, years-old roots with the tip of his shovel, lifted the whole thing out, and dropped it straight into the dumpster within minutes. My son and I stared in disbelief. This hours-long job we’d been gearing up for was suddenly done, thanks to this “angel.”
As we praised and thanked him, he grinned and said, “I’m 65 years old, and I’ve done this many times.” Then he headed back across the street and disappeared into his garage. My son and I stood there, wondering if the whole thing had really happened, though the Oleander sitting in the trash was proof it had.
In today’s contentious and divided environment, Robert reminded me that goodness and the willingness to reach out and help others are still alive and well. My wish is that we can all be a little braver, like Robert, and step in when we see someone who could use a hand. Go be someone’s angel. You won’t regret it.
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Well Street
Even into the next day, I thought about Robert's offer to help and the lightning speed with which he finished the task.
I appreciate the feelings that come from lending a helping hand. I'm certain the universe will provide opportunities to do so.
Slipstream
The amazement hasn't worn off one bit. I think I'll remember this experience far into the future.
Present Valley
What a beautiful story. I totally believe we can all be someone's angel. And sometimes we don't even know it...a kind word or a smile that may have made someone's day by lifting up their spirits.
My Geek Squad Angel bailed me out today when my computer stopped working for the second time this week. I wasn't on his schedule until the weekend however, he had an extra half hour and he called to see if he could come by and take a look at the problem. Yay! problem solved.
I feel like an angel every Sunday when I bring my friend with dementia to my house. We visit, I fix our lunch, she takes a nap, we chat some more and then I take her home. I have never felt so privileged and honored because she feels safe with me and is comfortable in my home. I also feel heartbroken as I witness, hear and feel her disappearing in front of my eyes. And yet I would not trade this profound experience for anything. It is a privilege to simply hold her hand or her as she cries about what is slipping away from her. I don't always have words yet I am always present with her in her sorrow and fear. Being with her makes me a better person, teaches me about the fragility of life and how precious our brain health is.