Civic Center
Don't Be an Unreasonable Political Animal
A friend moved back to town who I hadn’t seen since she graduated college. She was married now and I was eager to meet Troy, her new husband. I hosted dinner at my home and immediately felt a kinship with him just as I always had with her.
Over dinner, we laughed about old times and I learned about their future plans. When we settled into the library for coffee, Troy took a keen interest in my book collection. “You have a nice collection of history books. I’m impressed,” he said. “Do you have any books by Alan Dershowitz?” I did not.
Troy then announced that thanks to reading Alan Dershowitz, he left behind all the radical notions he once held in college and was now intellectually mature and conservative. “Democrats, after all, are by and large immoral,” he proclaimed—which confused me since Dershowitz was a Democrat.
Troy was passionate about his views, to say the least, so much so that he angrily cut off his wife whenever she tried to interject a mediating thought or opinion, especially as our views collided over the course of the evening’s cordial political discussion.
But gone was Troy’s initial charm and equipoise. Now, he seethed and glared whenever I said anything contrary to his beliefs—like I deserved a bullet in my head. Clearly, he had lost his balance.
We know that when we physically lean too far to the left or right, we will lose our balance and fall. Troy was a stark reminder that when we buy into “truths” preached by either extreme of the political spectrum, we will easily lose our emotional balance. We will disrespect. We will turn against. We will rage. We will hate. We will go to war. We will kill. We will lose loved ones.
When tragedy strikes our country, prominent leaders stand at the podium and say, “This is not a time for politics.” Why? Because they know what politics is. It’s sport. It’s a brawl meted out in a political arena where losers get bloodied and winners are cheered into their greenrooms followed by all those who betted on them and filled their coffers.
Throughout history, politics has been a game of winners and losers. It’s a play for power and your vote. That’s all. It’s not philosophy. It’s not wisdom. It’s not a heroic mission. Those who are selling tickets to the game hype it up with alluring promises they won’t fulfill, and profit big by having you on their hook. If you get hung up on it, you’ll dangle there longer than your candidate stays in office—and longer than the legislation you helped pass remains law.
Is it worth it? Has Congress made your life better? Has it brought you closer to your friends and family? Has it put more money in your pocket? Are you any safer in your home or on the streets? It’s doubtful. Accomplishments in life are your doing and likely the result of hard work. They are never political handouts.
I’m not saying politics is useless. Nor am I saying you shouldn’t vote, contribute, or lick campaign envelopes. Just don’t be fooled by it. Believe instead that all the good that gets done today will surely be undone tomorrow. My history books have taught me so—along with the stunning unraveling of hard-fought laws we once took for granted. Some may say that’s good. But it proves that nothing sticks and no one should stick their necks out and lose their balance on account of politics.
Go ahead and run for office, as I once did. Protest or wave your flag, as I often have. I highly recommend it. It reflects we can still count on some rights. So go out and be a good citizen and work for what you believe in. Do it loudly and proudly. But do it wisely with both feet on the ground, leaning neither too far to the left nor too far to the right. That way we can all meet somewhere in the middle. That’s what democracy is about.
Sanatana
This was a great piece. Very accurate and something that we all need to think about. Your questions are excellent: Has Congress made our lives better, put more money in our pockets, brought us closer to friends and family? Of course not.
Your visitor, Troy, was rude. I would have had a hard time having him in my home. And like you said, any extreme is bad, that's why the Tao teaches the middle way. Centered, we can remain balanced. Too far any direction, will guarantee you'll fall!
Evangel
Thank you. These days it's so easy to get caught in a news riptide that pulls us deeper into judgment and irrationality. The only way to get ourselves out is to be alert to what's happening and act as our own lifeguard.
Slipstream
This is a great article. I find that my friends and I share the same politics, but much of my family and I are in different camps. However, we find other things to talk about and have plenty of laughs. We've known each other all our lives so we're determined not to let anything drive a wedge between our shared love.
Evangel
That's a blessing since so many families can't embrace or tolerate the "oddballs" with opposite points of view. But as the saying goes, love trumps hate.
Faithville
Excellent write up…best for me to be balanced in the middle…to continue to find my shifting balance. Being non affiliated with a political party for the last six years I am now free to do this. It’s a good place to be.
Evangel
I think that's really smart. Countless Americans are fed up and choosing the same path. It puts the parties on alert because they can't then easily predict how the independents will vote.
Serenity Township
This is a great post with excellent examples on what not to do or say at a dinner party. Parties are for fun and not a place to grind your political axe especially with the hostess.
Evangel
Thank you, and very well said!
Well Street
Wonderful article!
I was once told that because my views are middle of the road, I was unwilling to take a position that was "real", that I played it safe, and that I was trying to be Switzerland.
At the time, it bothered me quite a bit to hear those things. In retrospect, that person was seriously out of balance in a number of ways and had no business calling me out.
Evangel
I understand that. Any extreme is far from the middle, and I think everyone in a two-party system will tilt one way or another.
Not having a view is a different story. That's more about playing it safe or being disenfranchised from politics itself.
Historically in America, at least up until now, extremists make most of the noise but lose most of the elections.