Challenge your default New Year’s resolution!

News Flash

New Years, like New Year’s resolutions, come and go. We make great self improvement promises to ourselves and other's, and they are often fleeting and not sustainable. “What if, instead of planning our exercise regimens, we focused our intentions on all that is undesirable in human activity” — wars, poverty, food insecurity, prejudice, isolation, homelessness, discrimination, and just basic cruelty? “Consider Whitman…The task of improving the world may seem impossible, but it isn’t. All it takes is the proper sequence of correct discrete decisions. Decisions are just resolutions with teeth. An editor shared a story from his childhood on his grandparents’ farm in Iowa. The little boy, looking out over acres and acres of corn, asked his grandfather, How are we going to shuck all that corn? His grandfather said one row at a time.”

What can you do to make a better world? Stage a protest? Send a letter to right a wrong? Proffer a friendship? Lend a hand? Offer a word of comfort or inspiration or support or love? Donate money, or most valuable of all, time?

This idea is that selfishness is not the opposite of self improvement, rather it can be the most meaningful and lasting kind…and bless so many.

Slipstream

Great article at the perfect time! Indeed, making resolutions to give more love can be powerful in changing our personal world and the world as a whole. I don't remember any war starting from giving too much love. Thanks so much for your beautiful post.

Well Street

Thank you for posting this timely piece.

With my clients who want to adopt healthy lifestyle habits, we determine what would be a baby step and low-hanging fruit toward their goal.
This approach can be applied in making the world better. A baby step could be treating an overworked store clerk with empathetic kindness, donating to a charity that aligns with one's values, or working to mend a relationship. Who knows where such momentum could lead?

Thank you again.

Faithville

Evangel

I love your article, and I love the idea of challenging ourselves to think of resolutions that will improve the lives of others.

Helping each other is what community is all about. So rather than bemoan those external social conditions that aggrieve us, we can lessen them by offering our innate wealth (knowledge, intuition, skill, wisdom, kindness, hopefulness, or joy) to those who most need some help.

Thank you for posting this!

Faithville