Generosity Is Truly Your Best Friend

Knowledge

When people struggle to make ends meet, giving to others becomes a challenge. Shopping for the perfect birthday gift, perusing the boss’s daughter’s wedding registry, or picking out that special graduation gift creates heartache. With credit cards maxed out, and bank accounts stretched thin, so many Americans find themselves in a giving crisis.

There’s always great joy in giving, so when that privilege disappears, it’s easy to feel despair. Who do we become if we can no longer express our generosity?

The good news is, generosity is not always about money. Primarily, it’s about heart. Whether you’re rich or poor, there’s always something worthy you can give, and the best gifts, the unforgettable ones, come from the goodness of your heart.

E.F. Schumacher, author of the book Small Is Beautiful, said, ”The best aid to give is a gift of useful knowledge. The gift of material goods makes people dependent, but the gift of knowledge makes them free.”

Going further back in history, when Socrates received gifts from his pupils, his student Aeschines said, ”Nothing that I am able to give to you do I find worthy of you, and only in this way do I discover I am a poor man. And so I give to you the only thing that I possess—myself.”

Others who’ve lived through previous hard times often quoted this gem from Kahlil Gibran, ”It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give unasked, through understanding.”

In Youtropolis, we are all gift givers. Whether we post our knowledge or insights, give you a laugh through an amusement, add useful gifts to our Recycle Bin, send kindreds to your Municipal Fund, or encourage you in your endeavors, we are doing so unasked through our inherent joy of giving.

This practice of giving not only warms the heart, it also builds genuine community. We get to know each other. We experience life together. We discover we’re not alone in our struggles. We are bestowed with the gift of caring and friendship.

There is another saying: Receive no more than you need; give no less than you can.

An expensive gift is nice to have or give. But there’s no greater delight than giving or receiving a personal gift of love during a time of need. Such gifts are not easily forgotten.

Here in Youtropolis, we reward you for every gift you bring—be it a gift of wisdom, knowledge, skill, talent, time, a giveaway, or even your emotional support—it’s how your city’s Municipal Fund grows in value, and how you help others thrive.

Because you are unique, your innate god-given gifts have purpose and value. By taking time to share them, others benefit. If you’re thinking you have nothing to give, think again. Even one positive comment of encouragement could give someone the joy or hope they’ve long been waiting for.

Slipstream

I agree that being generous elevates my mood, whether it's giving a compliment to a stranger at the market or helping a friend clean out their garage. I also find that connecting on Youtropolis gives me that same upliftment. Making myself available to help if called upon, or just a simple comment on a post, adds to my good feelings for the day. Being able to be myself and encouraging others to do the same is definitely liberating.

youtropolis

Social media has always been favored as a quick way to get eyes on oneself. Nothing wrong with that until it becomes an obsessive compulsion to feed one's need for constant "likes" and validation.

As most of us know, there's more to life than pleasing oneself. It's also about pleasing others, and collectively helping each other find our bliss and rise into it. That's what we're all about.

Present Valley

Great reminder!

It is a beautiful question, "Who do I become if I can't express my generosity." Followed by beautiful answers for how to go about that.

An example from my own life, several years ago I told all my friends I would like to change up how I celebrated Christmas. I did not need one more gift. To me the important gift was the person and spending time together. Wondering if they would make the switch with me...everyone agreed and we now celebrate the joy of being together.

I am amazed at how many gifts cost nothing to give and fill up my heart. Whether giving or receiving... an unexpected smile, kind word, phone call or text, taking a friend to a doctor appointment, just listening. It feels loving to be generous.

youtropolis

Your beautiful comment exemplifies the true meaning of being social. It can happen anywhere—in person or apart, or online if separated by distance. It's human nature to be social. Giving and receiving is truly essential to that nature, and knowing that others care about you and have your back brings lasting comfort, a sense of well-being, and security. It's what being part of a tribe is all about.

Thanks for your comment!

Well Street

Interestingly, what came to mind as I read this article was a men's restroom that's located in a building where I have clients. It's common for me to find and pick up wads of damp paper towels on the floor next to the garbage can, seemingly left there by individuals with poor aim.

Why would this come to mind when reading about generosity? I suppose that by picking up the stray paper towels and putting them in the garbage, I'm extending respect and kindness toward the cleaning staff. And even though no one else knows about this small action, it isn't any less generous.

Thank you for this insightful reminder of how generosity comes in many shapes and sizes, and how capable we are of spreading it.