Your Thoughts Aren't Going to Change ...
Thinking is a habit. We actually "think" that the more we think, the more change we can affect. But that's not true. Think all you want, but you aren't going to change a thing. You're basically using up your storage place and hoping that what you want to happen will.
Wilsons Grave
I'll just add...doing something changes things. If you really want something to happen, stop procrastinating and prognosticating about what will or won't happen.