The Chinese Farmer: A Zen Story
When things happen to us, it's easy to judge it good or bad. The truth is that we don't really know. We have no way of knowing the outcome of the events we experience.
In this little story, we learn that we really can't know whether something is good or bad. And that saying, "We'll see," is most likely the best answer under most situations.
Wilsons Grave
I found this video to be thoughtful. Never judging the good or bad that comes my way seems unlikely for me, but I'm guessing I'd feel light as a feather. Thanks for the enlightenment.