Is this an act of loving myself?

Evangel

This is an excellent question to ask. Some people may ask the question and sense the answer immediately. Others may not. Sometimes, too many factors muddy the waters, making clarity difficult.

If someone's unsure about a decision they're facing, why not suggest they start a blindfolded Insight poll on Youtropolis. When respondents weigh in with their intuition instead of opinion, the answer may become much more obvious.

Sanatana

Slipstream

Great advice! This is something that should be taught to children. We would save ourselves a whole lot of heartache if we started asking that question early on in life.

Sanatana

Yes, I agree, it's a question we can incorporate into our lives. We will get the right answer each time. Now .. what we do about it, is another thing.

Well Street

Great suggestion. Similarly, one could ask, "Would I advise a loved one to make that decision, take that job, get involved with that person, etc?"

I enjoy the clarity that the Youtropolis Insight poll provides, too.