A Toolbox For Thriving
I've been thinking a lot about thriving -vs- surviving in our upside down world. More specifically how to thrive in spite of all the chaos, uncertainty and confusion.
The image of a toolbox came to mind. I have an adorable red toolbox in my garage named Lily. I bought her at Home Depot, named her and filled her up with a few basic tools I couldn't hurt myself with after my husband passed away. A few different size hammers, screwdrivers; Phillips and Flathead, a pink drill, two tape measures, two different pair of pliers, two wrenches and a putty knife that I can use for lots of things. I never had a toolbox before because I didn't need one...then circumstances in my life changed and I needed one.
This toolbox image led me to the idea that now, maybe more than ever, we probably need a toolbox for thriving. Right now most things in our external world are not helping us thrive which is an invitation to go inward. In other words, living from the inside out. It doesn't have to be filled to the brim. A few basics that might be different for each person. For me it isn't about acquisitions or status or income but qualities like love, kindness, integrity, faith, prayer, community, values, compassion, gratitude, deep listening, empathy, exercise, stress reduction with conscious breathing and service.
If you have a toolbox for thriving I'd love to hear what is in it?
Well Street
It seems you've covered all the bases with the items you've included in both toolboxes. Like we've talked about, the value of deep listening can't be overstated. It's quite liberating to be present in a conversation without silently crafting a response or waiting for our turn to speak.
Thank you for this valuable checklist.
Present Valley
Thank you for taking the time to comment.
I always appreciate your insight. 😊
Slipstream
I'd never thought about having a toolbox as you describe it, although I certainly rely on many of those tools throughout my day. All the tools you mention make a lot of sense to keep handy. Thanks for sharing. I think there are a couple in there I could use 😊
Present Valley
So happy to read things in my toolbox might have some uses in your toolbox. 😘
Thank you for your comment.
Evangel
Your toolbox for thriving seems quite full! I also have a red toolbox that lives in my garage. It's packed with all the tools, bits, and parts I need for sprinkler and dripline repairs, but it once was my mother's toolbox for oil paints, linseed oil, turpentine, and paint brushes. Despite its contents, it remains a reminder of the joy she felt when it sat open in her studio while she painted something new. I think painting is what helps me thrive, too, along with the constant guidance I receive. It's primary in how I live from the inside out, but there's love for friends and family in that box which sits in its top shelf.
Thank you for inspiring me to think about what makes me thrive. The analogy of a toolbox is very apropos.
Present Valley
What a beautiful heartfelt comment.
Thank you.
I never knew your mother painted too. How special you held on to that little red toolbox,
Wilsons Grave
Good post! I think the toolbox has long stood as a symbol for thriving mainly for us guys. We've all carried them around for decades until computers put many out of commission. Still they get dragged out for weekend fixes. I thrive when I'm busy, so I'd say my toolbox has regular old tools in it standing at the ready for any friend or neighbor who's got a leaky sink, a broken radiator handle, or a broken sprinkler head. The payback is always the appreciation I get in return which often includes a good conversation, a cup of coffee, and sometimes a pastry.
Present Valley
Thank you for sharing what is on your toolbox.
Your neighbors and friends are very fortunate and as I read you are too with the “payback.”
I appreciate your comments as always.