Although it's not widely accepted these days, it does make some sense. We're all different when it comes to sleep, so maybe paying attention to those needs will make for a happier relationship. Now, if only you can get your partner to agree; therein lies the rub.
As someone who's studied a fair amount about sleep and is also a light sleeper, I support the views of psychologists and sleep scientists who encourage people to sleep separately when it's necessary.
That said, I know some people would interpret this as a reflection of the quality and strength of their relationship with their partner, and feel resistant to the idea.
I agree with you. Both partners have to agree it's a good thing for the relationship. I personally know couples who have been together for decades and are very happy together and haven't slept in the same bed for many years because it just doesn't work for them.
I think both partners would have to be very confident in their relationship to make this work, but I really believe it's a good idea and couples just need to get okay with it--which will happen as time normalizes it. By the way, I love your vintage and otherwise fun video clips that show up in your news presentations. Where on earth do you find them?
Slipstream
Although it's not widely accepted these days, it does make some sense. We're all different when it comes to sleep, so maybe paying attention to those needs will make for a happier relationship. Now, if only you can get your partner to agree; therein lies the rub.
TMac
AHHH, yes. It definitely has to be a mutual decision.
Well Street
As someone who's studied a fair amount about sleep and is also a light sleeper, I support the views of psychologists and sleep scientists who encourage people to sleep separately when it's necessary.
That said, I know some people would interpret this as a reflection of the quality and strength of their relationship with their partner, and feel resistant to the idea.
TMac
I agree with you. Both partners have to agree it's a good thing for the relationship. I personally know couples who have been together for decades and are very happy together and haven't slept in the same bed for many years because it just doesn't work for them.
Evangel
I think both partners would have to be very confident in their relationship to make this work, but I really believe it's a good idea and couples just need to get okay with it--which will happen as time normalizes it. By the way, I love your vintage and otherwise fun video clips that show up in your news presentations. Where on earth do you find them?