Finding Your Way Through Overwhelm

Knowledge

I know what it’s like to feel completely overwhelmed. You’re juggling work deadlines, trying to keep up with the house repairs that never end, making time for your family, and still, somehow, there’s a pile of laundry staring you down. I’ve been there—it feels like you’re carrying the weight of the world, and no matter how hard you try, it’s never enough. But over time, I’ve learned a few things that help me get through those moments, and I want to share them with you because they’ve truly made a difference in my life.

When I start feeling like everything’s spinning out of control, the first thing I do is stop and write it all down. I call it a “brain dump,” and honestly, it’s like a reset button for my mind. Seeing everything on paper makes it more manageable. From there, I ask myself: What really needs to get done today? The rest can wait, and that’s okay.

Taking breaks has been a game-changer for me too. Even if it’s just a few minutes to step outside and breathe in some fresh air, it clears my head. And I’ve learned the hard way that I can’t do it all myself. Asking for help doesn’t make you weak—it’s smart. Whether it’s at work or at home, leaning on others lightens the load.

The biggest lesson? Do one thing at a time. I used to try to tackle everything at once, but it just left me feeling more scattered. Now, I focus on finishing one task before moving to the next. It’s amazing how much better that feels.

What about you? I’d love to hear how you handle stress when life feels overwhelming. Let’s share ideas—maybe what works for you can help someone else too.

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Evangel

I totally relate. Fortunately, I have a rescue plan I started to put in place when the overwhelm became unmanageable. The first thing I do is recognize and accept the chaos. If I don't, I won't take any remediating steps--I'll just burn out.

Step two is to decide whether or not I can take a break from the chaos such as walk away and ignore it for an afternoon. If I give myself permission to step away, I listen to music during which time I figure out solutions to mitigate the chaos. Something as simple as cleaning up my desktop works. Other times, I know I need outdoor time such as working in the yard where trees and plants infuse me with energy and brighten my day.

Thanks for sharing your ideas!

Bootstrap

Thanks for your response. I like your "go-to" ideas when before it gets overwhelming.

Slipstream

Thanks for your suggestions; they're very helpful. I try to fit in a bit of exercise each day, and I take one morning a week (for me it's Sunday) to myself. I read or sometimes just putter. It really helps my mental health.

Bootstrap

I like the idea of taking a morning to myself. That's a great tip; thanks!

Wilsons Grave

You got some good tips we can all work with. I especially like the brain dump!

Asking for help has been my go-to--but only when it's something folks can help with. It keeps me in touch with neighbors, friends, and family and makes them feel like they matter and are useful. It may be an afternoon of work, but it's teamwork and free food when all is said and done. It's a fun way to take a load off, and make more room with the busy stuff I gotta do on my own.

Bootstrap

The brain dump has been very helpful. And your teamwork and free food suggestion is a real winner; thanks!